Girls, You need to read this! (edited)

okay i think it's about time that the girls know what the guys really thinks!
well i know that i am a girl and sometime i forgot what is the feelings that my boyfriend feels.
it's always ME, ME, and oh yea ME!
okay don't tell me girls that, this is not true, because believe me every thing that i worte here in my
blog is true.
you are not alone, all the girls do this.
because we know that they love us so much that we haven't realised that they can be hurt too ton the things that
we say or do. sometimes we, girls, have to realise that those guys have feelings and emotions like us.
like for example, guys don't care if we are friends with other guys, but when you are sitting next to them and some random guys walks into the room and you jump and tackle him, without even introducing to them, it pisses
them off.
some guys are really good at hidding their emotion, but it's true.
And yeah it doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for like ten minutes without even acknowledging
the fact that they are there.
they don't care if a guy calls or text to us, but at 2 in a morning, they get a little concerned.
Like they will actually think that nothing is that important at 2 a.m. that it can't wait until the morning?
also, when they said we are pretty, beautiful, gorgeous, cute, or stunning. they actually mean that. We just tell them that they are wrong, which the guy don't know that we just saying that so they can say some good things to us and to notice that we've been dong somethings so we can be pretty. But what we don't know that we don't need to have to get dressed upfor them, if we are going out with them we don't have to wear the shortest skirt we have or put on every kind of make up we own. they will love us for who we are and they think that girls are much beautiful if they are just in our PJ's or their shirt and boxers, not all dolled up.
a guy told me that the sexiest thing about girls is their confident. i don't know if that true, so i will continue typing.
okay, i don't about this but i think this but some girls get mad when they hold the door open.
like HELLO! he is just being a gentleman, you're lucky because some guys are not like that.
be mad if he doesn't care about you.

here's one thing about us, especially me, we need to "take advantage of the mood", like for example let them pay for us. don't feel bad. they enjoy doing it. instead of "feeling bad" for them, they are actually expecting us to smile and say "thank you" kiss them if no one is watching. but don't take advantage like you know those people who are taking them for granted, like using their money for free stuff.
but honestly i am not that kind of girl that some person will pay for my expences, yeah not going to happened.
i am kinda stubborn. i'm sorry.. XP
anyway, let's go back to what are we discussing.
we, girls, don't have to take everything seriously. guys love sarcasm, it's a beautiful thing to them and sometime we need to see the beauty in it.
so please girls don't get angry easily and stop using media or magazine as your bible.
they actually don't care if we talk about Criss Brown or Brad Pitt in front of them.
this is why we have "girl bonding" so we can talk about those guys, but if we are with them just focus on one thing. HIM!
instead of calling them "hey baby/stud/cutie/sexy" call them handsome or beautiful. they will be utterly stunned by a girl who will great him like that.
okay not all guys are saint.
like some guys are treating girls with no respect. like hello! are you a guy or a gay???
to those girls who aren't being treated rith by those guys, don't wait for him to change, ditch his sorry ass.
he's disgrace to the male population and find someone who will treat you utter respect.
someone who will honour your morals, not the one who will make you self esteem low.
someone who will make you smile when you're at your lowest, not the one who makes you cry.
someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes, not the one who doesn't even care.
someone who will stop what they're doing just to look in to your eyes and say "i love you" and actually mean it, not the one who will look at other girls then look at you with hesitations and say i love you and don't know what it means.
you need to give the nice guys a chance. they are not whiny, they are not losers. beacause they are the one who will love you forever.

*Holding Hands
Girls :If you want to hold his hand,gently bump into it a couple oftimes
Guys: Grab it if it happens more than once
*Cuddling
Girls : When you want to cuddle with him, tell him you're cold
Guys : Automatically move closer toher.
*Movies
Girls : During a movie, if he puts his arm around you, tilt your head on his shoulder
Guys : Lift her chin up and kiss her.*Loving each other
Guys : When she tells you she loves you, look deep into her eyes, give hera peck on the lips, and tell her youlove her too...
And mean it.
*Laying below the stars
Girls : When you're both laying underthe stars, put your head on his chestand close your eyes as you listen tohis steady heart beat
Guys: Whisper in her ear and linkyour hands with hers.By 12 am tonight your one true lovewill realize how much they want you.

so girls and boys,
to make a relationship going and strong, you people need to respect each other, love each other and trust each other.
don't make a little things worst. don't over-react to what people say.
cherish the times when you with that someone special.
and enjoy.. :D





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